A few years ago, I was romantically rejected by a guy. I was so upset at that he didn’t like me back, I cried every day about him for at least a year and thoughts of him made me want to die. I was able to care less and less about it over time, even though he still bothered me a bit. I’m trying to be on friendly terms with him now, but those old feelings keep popping up. I was and am more upset by the fact that it gets to me so much. What can I do about these negative thoughts/feelings?
Unrequited love is very hard and can be devastating but as a symbol this is about you finding the love within yourself.You need to find what makes you happy again and slowly get yourself back. This is about letting go of energy that no longer serves us which isn’t always an easy process. You need to find within yourself that love that you projected onto him, much easier said than done but that’s what this is truly about. Your heart is aching because within yourself you don’t feel the love for yourself. This is a huge heart issue that honestly we all go through at some point or another, do not feel negative about this issue instead see it as a learning experience. A lesson of love. Sooner or later when you find that love within and are happy with yourself again, you’re attract a guy who wants to be with you for you. But First you need to let go of the past, let go of the past hurt, the past anger, the past dissapoint and instead focus on who you are today, right now in the present and try to be positive. Just because it didn’t work out with him doesn’t have to mean the end of the world, there are soo many other opportunities out there. I wholehearted believe everything happens for a reason and sometimes things don’t work out so better people can come together. This is what you need to see, Letting go of this sadness and hurt is the first step to feeling better again but you really have to do it for you. Find a way to make yourself happy again, do something you love to do even if it’s a simple thing like reading a book or going to your favorite shop or whatever you enjoy, find the things that make you happy within yourself. Then one day you’ll look back at this moment and realize maybe it was supposed to be this way, that way i could find the love within myself to attract that love in return back to me <3
I also recommend Jade, Green calcite and Rose Quartz, those two are excellent for a hurt heart
much love and healing light <3
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