Coming from personal experience, i think in a way you CAN curse yourself especially with your thought patterns due to the law of attraction. Do i think someone can put a Hex on you like fairytale magic? Probably not, unless there’s some strange karmic bond involved, i don’t see that as likely…I’m not saying no because i’ve had my own experiences in my own past where my friends and i would joke around that i’m cursed with always having guys that turn into stalkers, which actually came true. Almost every guy i was seeing around that time, literally stalked me but i learned the hard way lol. I also believe in the Threefold law which has also came true in my relationships.
In general this comes down to “If you say, think and believe something long enough, it will inevitably come true” so the real question is why do you feel cursed?
Are you having a rough time right now?
There is also a process during awakening which is called the Dark night of the soul. It’s where the old soul is dying and the new consciousness is being born in it’s place this transition is always rocky because the old you is fighting for control as the new you is starting to gain reign of your consciousness. It can lead to life alternating triggers that completely rip apart your world from teh ground up. So it’s also a possiblity this may be what you’re experiencing as well…
You write “If life hasn’t been going well at all, does it mean that’s just how it is or is there really such a thing of being “cursed”. I can honestly tell you there is NO WAY you are cursed for life, it sounds to me like you are in probably a very bad situation right now or maybe you feel your life is falling apart but this doesn’t amount to you being cursed. If you are telling yourself you are cursed, PLEASE STOP, you are only perpetuating the disease to spread further. Cursing is not something to fool around with or even tell yourself that you are cursed is only helping bring the principle into your life. The law of attraction is very real so when we start “believing” these symbols they start to form and shape into our external reality.
Going to church isn’t going to help this, what you need is something to help your thought process. What you need is a change of faith right now, you need to dislodge this type of thinking you are having. This one kinda connects to the previous question but you have to realize you are the only one making yourself cursed by believing it and probably saying it. You are not your thoughts. You should look into the Magic by Rhonda Bryne, it’s a beautiful book that focuses on gratitude. Many of us swear by it, it’s a life changing book that really helps channel your beliefs in a positive manner and also attracts GOOD things into your life. There are also a bunch of good books by Abraham hicks such as Ask and is it given. I really feel that’s what you need to see right now. You need to see that the law of attraction can attraction GOOD as well as bad. The universe is run by principle alone, it’s not invoking vendettas and trying to make you feel horrible on purpose. It’s about the thoughts we put out, we receive back. You can even start today, think of something positive you wish to attract and make it your mantra for today. Whatever you’re feeling bad, say it back to yourself, push that momentum! and realize what we think, we become.
I am grateful for positive outcomes within my life
I am grateful for abundance within my life
I am grateful for good opportunities
I am not cursed, the universe attracts what i need to see and heal within myself.
You are only cursed if you say you are cursed, let it go <3
hope this helps you on your way