Dream Symbols: Fear of losing someone

Good morning,

I wanted to share last night experience. I had a dream which I guess represented my fear of losing my boyfriend due to cheating. I remember me he let me go through his phone because I had confronted him of an affair, instead I found several conversations, including pictures and all, two of them I knew who they were, other 2 unknown. I was devastated, but I was SO RELIEVED. When I woke up, though, I was shocked, it seemed more real than ever, certain cues in my dream which usually change, stayed the same. Im just unsure if my subconscious is receiving a cue from waking life. Because lately ive been calmed in regards to my insecurities and jealousy, that same day I said to myself”wow, ive made so much progress”. I tried falling back asleep with the blue lace agate around my neck, repeating to myself”please show me the truth when the time is right”. 
When I awoke again, 45 minutes later. There was a moth on my window, not dead. I dont know how long it was there for. I felt it had to mean something. Do you think it has a correlation?

I remember when you posted this and the same night i had a crazy weird anxiety attack in my nightmare, it was so strange so there was definitely something in the air that night that was about healing. It’s very possible since this was only a dream this is part of your subconscious signifying that you are afraid of losing him, there is a part of you that is fearful of this and it’s surfacing in your dreams. Dreams are not always literal, almost all dreams are subconscious symbols that are archetypal triggers for us to heal, work on ourselves, release past energy patterns and let go of what no longer serves us. How do you currently feel about this dream since it’s been a bit since you wrote this? Are you still happy together, do you still love eachother unconditionally? Do you still carry no attachments except to love one another? 
The best advice I can give is to lose this current fear, Worry and anxiety are truly a misuse of our imagination. When we let fear run the show we aren’t being grounded with our true self. When we feel un-grounded, fear can control our life in many ways which can create unnecessarily scenarios of worry and anxiety about our relationships or just in general life. It’s the concept of thinking too much in future so that the Present is clouded by illusions of overthinking and over-analyzing. The best thing you can do for yourself is Listen to your heart, do you truthfully feel he would cheat on you? Or is this more of something more internal that you need to see within yourself? This is not only an issue of the Root but also of the Crown. The Crown is all about Trust and Faith through our circumstances. Knowing there is a higher divine order directing us towards where we need to go and why. Why you needed to see the dream and why you need to Let go of this dream. The Crown is all about teaching us to fully Let go and embrace duality within unity. The illusion of separation is merely that, illusion. We are infinitely connected, there is no reason to fear you will lose him because you are already connected to him infinitely. When we let go of this fear, we’re able to see from the big picture that this dream was merely to serve you through healing of your Heart by evoking inner balance by Questioning yourself and your relationship.
When we’re able to let go of fear we open the door for new opportunites, new energy of positive fruition, new energy of change and growth. The fact is he probably would never cheat on you, this is merely your mind playing tricks on you, it is the pure definition of what the EGO/ID does. It’s all about congnitive dissonance and how it shapes us to grow. So the question here is how do you truly feel about this? fearful or as you said in your message Calm and Secure towards jealousy and your insecurities. Maybe this dream is nothing more than a symbolic manifestation of your insecurities that you need to release?
The Moth is like the butterfly a Symbol for Transformation and Metamorphosis.

Moth’s gifts include the power of the whirlwind, ease of movement in darkness/shadow, transformation/metamorphosis, ability to confuse enemies, ability to find light in darkness, hearing spoken and unspoken messages….Metamorphosis is part of moths magic – the egg stage is symbolic of the birth of an idea, the larvae stage is the foundation, the chrysalis stage is symbolic of the manifestation, and the growing of wings symbolises taking flight and exploring uncharted territory….The moth is an optimist and opportunist with countless transformative properties. From them we learn how to expand and perfect our inherent psiychic abilities, and how to let go of negative energies and unwelcome influences, helping us move into our personl power and happiness” 

I have had similar dreams when i was in a relationship and thought he was cheating, it turns out i was just so caught up in the fear of losing him, that i kept attracting numerous illusions and all this anxiety about it into my life. In reality he never cheated on me to begin with but i had to go through many obstacles to heal my heart chakra through self-love and forgiveness of my past self.  Don’t let your mind run the show, always let your heart. We are now almost married with a kid 🙂

Let go of Fear and have Faith is the message i’m getting here. All will come to light for you to grow and heal in new ways through this relationship. Let go of what doesn’t serve you and Open the Door to endless possibilities. Find the light within the dark and you will shine again <3

hope this helps you

love <3
Ash

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