So he’s basically a guy who wants to sleep with you but doesn’t want to be emotionally committed to you but you feel the opposite? I honestly think and this ismy personal opinion take it or leave it, that he is playing you in many ways. A lot of people want sex to just be sex but it honestly doesn’t work that way energetically. There is always an emotional connection tied behind sex no matter what anyone tells you because when you have intercourse you are exchanging energies with this person through kundalini. You cannot have sex without emotional and psychic involvement. There will always be an undercurrent of emotional issues. It’s so funnyi was just reading something similar in the booki am readingright now.“Opening your sacred site to sexual activity is an act of surrender to your vulnerability because it roots out emotional pain, limiting beliefs, blockages of energy –essentially anything that clutters and pollutes the elegant beauty of your site and keeps you functioning as an integrated human being.
Emotion expression is essential to the development of your intelligence; therefore emotional issues will naturally surface before, during and after sex. Emotions put the juice behind the thoughts you are sending out, and while engaged in sexual activity, your thoughts are quite amplified. Telepathy is very strong in the bedroom, whether the exchange of information is acknowledged or not. Remember you can fool yourself, but you cannot fool others with your frequency, and as energy accelerates, the “knowing” shared between two people will be especially highly accentuated. Even if your sex life is “hot under the covers” you still have to deal with the emotional issues that sex stirs up, because you cannot have sex without emotional and psychic involvement. Feelings need to be felt and accepting responsibility for how you feel will not only put you in touch with your beliefs you will also be acting from a stance of empowerment.“ (path of empowerment by barabara marcinak)
I think if he were honestly a soulmate he would at least be responding emotionally back to you, instead of hiding his feelings. If you honestly really like him and want that emotional relationship, maybe you should talk to him about how he DOES feel rather than him giving you excuses. There has to be that open level of communication and honesty otherwise this relationship will not grow. When we hide our feelings, we aren’t projecting our true desires and how we want to express ourselves. He personally sounds like he doesn’t know what he wants and he needs to figure it out. The best ticket for any relationship is communication and honesty because it shows you are valuing your emotions and expressions and it’s the same for him too. I don’t know your relationship but even just an outside view, i would not consider someone my soulmate who doesn’t even wish to communicate his feelings to me, it just doesn’t work like that. Love is a two way street and which means it goes both ways or the car doesn’t get very far you know?
We have all been in this position before and truthfully i think you should find someone who loves ALL OF YOU for who you are rather than hides his emotional insecurities and doesn’t commit unless you want that type of relationship yourself but it seems like to me that isn’t what YOU *truly* want for yourself. It’s basically mind games to put it simply and love is not about mind games at all. Love is love, no attachments necessary, loving someone for who they are asking nothing in return.
I hope this isn’t offensive in any way, just how i’m seeing your situation at hand. Believe me i have been here before and you truly don’t want to be that woman because he’s stringing you along because he knows he can…
I send you love <3