When you read into the energies of other people, you have to have a clear mind and feel them rather than think over them. The key structure is acknowledging that the when you don’t look people in the eyes or within their own aura field, you will only be reading their own aura patterns therefore you are only hearing yourself. You infuse negative ions into your aura known as dark energy so instead all you hear are your own thought patterns versus listening to other people’s energy and giving back to them. it creates blocked energy flow. However when you have a conversation with someone, you listen with a clear mind or by looking at them in the eyes you’re reading into their focal point which is the third eye, the central region of the forehead. It takes practice and mind discipline but it really does help. Why do you think so many people can’t look into other eyes? They’re not getting a clear reading. Especially if you’re having a bad day, looking into the eyes of someone you love or a friend really makes your day a bit brighter. Do you ever have days where you’re thinking of someone who is distant from you and all of a sudden your mind is just consumed with all these thoughts of jealousy, anger, sadness, anxiety, etc. You’re thinking of all of these ego illusions because you are not near the person you are thinking about, when you calm down clear your head and then feel with the heart. It’s a different story. You need balance to embrace this in totality which only happens when you link your heart with another of true love, compassion and kindness. It’s all about listening ultimately and learning to control your thoughts.
Hope it helps and makes sense lol <3