How to Combat Negative Energy and turn it into Positive

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I’ve been having a chapter in my life where I’ve turned into this negative person , when I use to be so upbeat and optimistic. The physical world and it’s values are getting to my head, and making me feel like I have nothin going for me. I recently graduated high school , and I’m not in college and I have no job. And everyone around me is making me feel blue because of me not having that. This new year I want to find myself , center my inner self and be at peace with my self, learn how to cope with the physical world. I just need a few wise words from you >_< please, it would help a lot .

This is very sweet that you write to me, sometimes Life is just flat out full of challenges but we’re the ones that can turn our life around by taking control of our thoughts and our actions. Everyone has been there we all hit a form of rock bottom but we have to remember we are always on the right path. This is all about inner growth. You have to ask yourself what choice do you want to make now, what direction do you want your life to manifest in? How can you be happy again and what can make you happy again inside yourself? 

I may not of just graduated but i’m in a similar situation, I got pregnant at 24, ended up quitting my job due to my health and raising my son, i was immensely dehydrated from work and stress. Then my fiance came to live with me and now he’s working 5 days a week to support our little family. I still live with my parents because we’re trying to get our feet on the ground. I constantly have to deal with my parents who are basically the total opposite of Adam and I which makes it really hard. It’s like there is energy friction in this house because our consciousness feels like new reality and they are still stuck in old reality. Soo i totally get where you are coming from but the important thing to remember and learn is that the physical world is always going to be there with all of it’s egoism, materials and people who will just flat out not listen or understand. But that’s okay because if YOU, your inner reality is happy your physical world will be happy. You’re very right it is always about centering and directing your will in a positive direction. This is solar plexus territory, you need to find your personal power, your inner goddess/god self again by being gentler to yourself.

If you can’t enjoy your inner being how can you enjoy your outer reality? they go hand in hand with eachother. Graduating is a deep personal closure, you are in a transition point with yourself about where you want to go in life. try to not get so hung up on the future but instead work on what makes you happy. Once you find the positive personal power within you, you will find the direction your soul wishes to make. It actually took me two years before i decided i wanted to go to college, i got a full time job at the bakery instead was making steady flow of income and just enjoyed myself during my time off, it was nice. I did a lot of soul searching during that time and i even met the love of my life during those years. I actually dropped out my junior year, due to money issues and fanacial aid being a bitch, long story. Anyway some people aren’t meant for college, our education system is really corrupted. society forces 16-18 year old to go into financial debt and try to make this huge life decision of choosing a major thats unrealistic especially when you are a young adult your mind is still exploring. Theres NO WAY half the people in college even know what theyre doing with themselves. Its a game really. It symbolizes that you are “learning”. Some people enjoy college and that’s fine and others aren’t really meant for it, they are both okay it is all about our personal choices. Honestly half the time in this current recession its a gamble that our degree will take us anywhere except being in over $30,000-50,000 debt. Its hard to find a stable job right now, it will come to you in time when your ready for it.
These are all choices we make, it doesn’t have to make you feel worthless because everyone else is supposedly “happy and successful” because they’re going to college and MAYBE they’ll get a good job. It is all a label more or less. Its wonderful to learn knowledge but not in a way that stresses you to pure exhaustion, leaves you sleep deprived running on caffeine fumes, depleting your self esteem by symbolizing your worth by a Letter and Number. If you really want to learn, Try to self-educate yourself it’s far more satisfying and limitless. It comes a point where you have to realize it is not about Them, it is about you and your inner reality. Once you learn to transform your inner reality, your outer reality will simply fall into place by the power of the law of attraction. 

Some crystals that help with protection,grounding the ego, transmuting negative energy into positive, self love, still the mind and mental clarity:
Spirit quartz, black tourmaline, amethyst, rose quartz, desert rose, and citrine 

I remember someone once told me “You can look out that window into the world and see hell, see the pain, the violence, the cruelity, the crimes, the anger, etc.  but where will it get you? Everything has it’s purpose even the bad days help us appreciate the good ones. I was reading in the paper someone actually robbed a charity event, everyone was so devastated that the church received TRIPLE the amount of what they originally had because the story was so touching. You can look out the window and see hell IF you want but you can also see heaven. You can see the beauty in the simple things, see how miraculous mother earth actually is, see how each living creature on this world is connected in some way. You can fall in love and have faith in yourself but it’s not about the destination, it’s about the journey. The Journey of your thoughts. The power is always within them and how you wish to see the world. What will be your choice?" 

I hope it helps, i wish you much love, healing and happiess for the new year 

Namaste <3

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Spiritual Coach & Teacher at The Awakened State
Ashley is the founder of The Awakened State, where she helps others understand the process of Kundalini Awakening through tools, exercises & personal experience. Her mission is to guide others to discover their unlimited potential and how we can move beyond our fears to create New Empowered Paradigms. She teaches others to Dismantle Resistance,Live Beyond Fear and Start Awakening Their Inner Creator. When she’s not blogging,she’s netflixing with her man or playing with her two crazy little ones.
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