Advice on Letting Go

Healing Hands

I was wondering if I could ask you for your opinion on something. You may have heard it from
People before but.. It would be really nice if I could hear what you think. I’ve been contemplating asking you for a while and now I’m finally going to ask.
I was an emotionally close off person, very scared to let people close to me, see me for me, love me. My best friend fell in love with me and I pushed him away for two years and not until I almost lost him did I finally admit that I always loved him too. We started to date, I was on cloud nine, I saw forever in his eyes. It felt like he kissed my souls and he used to say we were intertwined. Then something happened. We got into a fight or something, I can’t even really remember. But I thought he was worth it, I would have done and tried to do everything I could for him and for us. He started pulling away and broke up with me because he said I treated him too good. Shortly we got back together, I convinced myself that I forgave him for it but thinking of it now I didn’t. Needless to say after a few months he broke up with me again. Since then he has to put it lightly has become a different person. He has apparently moved on, can’t be without this new girl, is partying non stop, moved in with her. In a very short period of time. Everything I wanted him to do with me, he’s doing for her. And is lashing out and making up and saying I’m a horrible person and all these untrue things, saying it was my fault.
I don’t understand, why is he being like this. I didn’t want us to end. I wanted to be with him forever. I don’t know why he is being hurtful to me when he was the one who ended things and since then have acted out in negative ways. I need to let him go because now I hate that I love him, I don’t want to me angry forever. I want to be happy
Please, kindly, warmly
I could use your advice

— smilewiseForgive. There is true power in forgiveness, the more you keep cycling the past the harder it is to let go of the pain of the experience. I know much easier said than done but this is the only way to find happiness again. you have to heal your heart through love and forgiveness. His reactions show this is how he’s dealing with the break up and also dealing with his own heart. Some guys move on fast because they don’t want to deal with the pain and the emotions (no offense guys, i love you) but then there are others who are the opposite too. Him lashing out at you is merely his projected hurt/anger/emotional response towards his own self-love/self-worth. Remember the mirror.

Relationships always show us our deepest mirror of ourselves, sometimes things have to break apart so better things can come together, this is one of the acts of the dark night of the soul. The act of feeling you lost your other half of your soul. I can tell you are hurting and this is only natural but the universe is telling you to forgive, forgive the experience, forgive the pain, forgive the hurt and let go. Let go so you can be happy again, let go so you can find yourself again, let go so you can open yourself to love of self and love of others. Surround yourself in green, invoke the Rose Quartz vibration of unconditional love and see even those that leave us we can still love them from a different state. Love comes in all shapes and sizes. You saying you hate that you love him is telling me you are hurting, you need to find the love within, instead of finding it underneath someone’s skin. You can be happy again but first it starts with you and releasing the past. Acceptance of the situation and what happened.

Let go of what no longer serves you and you will find yourself again.

One saying i always loved is Ho’oponopono

“I love you. I’m sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you.”

I love all that you have taught me during this lesson of my mirror reflection

I’m sorry for the hurt we both have caused to each other

Please forgive me for what has happened

Thank you for what you have you taught me about love, forgiveness and truth

I hope this helps you

I send so much love and healing light to you beautiful <3

Ash

 

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Ashley is the founder of The Awakened State, where she helps others understand the process of Kundalini Awakening through tools, exercises & personal experience. Her mission is to guide others to discover their unlimited potential and how we can move beyond our fears to create New Empowered Paradigms. She teaches others to Dismantle Resistance,Live Beyond Fear and Start Awakening Their Inner Creator. When she’s not blogging,she’s netflixing with her man or playing with her two crazy little ones.
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