It seems as if everyone I know (myself and my mother and aunts included) is dealing with romantic relationship issues, breakups, divorce, arguments/fights, and just general irritation with their significant others. Is there something going on in the cosmos causing all of this?
Mercury retrograde will do this, not to mention all the strong alignments we’re in right now, plus the fact that we’ve entered the subconscious which means karmic cleansing to the extreme. A lot of past emotions, relationships, friendships, etc. are being brought to the surface to be cleared. This means that a lot of old karmic ties are severing, such as it’s either a choice of changing the past into higher soul relationships or releasing old 3d relationships that are built around karma. If they no longer resonate or if the frequencies no longer match they will fall away in various ways, usually first by fear, then the ego takes over and will create mind illusions that will impact our psyches to decide what is the right choice int he matter. If it’s still laced in fear then it will cause breakups, divorces, fights, etc. If you can remove the fear from the relationship and become detached but still loving your partner, you will move your relationship into a higher loving soulful frequency.
These two quotes sum it up rather nicely:
New Earth relationships will be so different to the relationships you now have. They will be gentler and more playful and yet wise. There will be less intensity and drama, and more caring, nurturing and companionship. You will come to realise that the purpose of relationship, all relationship, is to “relate” ~ to share and to support and to nurture from your own sense of abundance and completeness. You will look for relationships that are spiritual and heart-based, rather than physical and emotional. In the Old Earth relationship paradigm, relationships were based on physical attraction and emotional bonding. In the New Earth, your relationships will be based in the heart, in feelings, compassion, connection and mutual respect and support. We foresee many relationships growing between people of different age groups and different cultures, relationships that will be deep and meaningful, and yet would not have seemed possible before because of the narrow limitations of what you considered a relationship to be in your Old Earth energy framework. These relationships will be light and joyous, and yet capable of real depth and intimacy because the people concerned will be more interested in the connections of the soul rather than the connections of the external and the physical realms.
A new energy relationship is to learn to have a relationship with yourself firstbefore a loving, sharing balanced and harmonious relationship can be experienced with another. It is a sovereign relationship with self, with all facets of self. The relationship with your partner is just a mirror of the type of relationship you are having with yourself. A relationship with self is to bring the outside issues to the inside – looking within instead of focusing on your partner- to seek out the missing link to fill the empty gap within yourself first. A loving new energy relationship with another is to be able to open the door of self-discovery without fear of any destructive abuse, limitation or disempowerment. It is to be with your partner, to enjoy their company, for you do not need anything from them, you do not need to take their energy by feeding off them, you do not need to take or share their money or material possessions, and they do not have to do something in return for you to love them and for them to love you. They do not need to feed off you or enslave your energy. It is to enjoy the relationship with them without placing each others fears, baggage, burdens, agendas and attachments upon each other. ~ Pamela Belle Skus ♥
Hope it helps