Please show me how to use sexual transmutation the right way?
As espoused in the Tanya, Hasidic Jewish mysticism views sublimation of the animal soul as an essential task in life, wherein the goal is to transform animalistic and earthy cravings for physical pleasure into holy desires to connect with God.
Different schools of thought describe general sexual urges as carriers of spiritual essence, and have the varied names of vital energy, vital winds (prana), spiritual energy, ojas, shakti, tummo, orkundalini. It is also believed that undergoing sexual sublimation can facilitate a mystical awakening in an individual” ~ wiki
“Sex desire is the most powerful of human desires. When driven by this desire, men develop keenness of imagination, courage, willpower, persistence, and creative ability unknown to them at other times. So strong and impelling is the desire for sexual contact that men freely run the risk of life and reputation to indulge in it. When harnessed, and redirected along other lines, this motivating force maintains all of its attributes of keenness of imagination, courage, etc., which may be used as powerful creative forces in literature, art, or in any other profession or calling, including, of course, the accumulation of riches. The transmutation of sex energy calls for the exercise of will power, to be sure, but the reward is worth the effort. The desire for sexual expression is inborn and natural. The desire cannot and should not be submerged or eliminated. But it should be given an outlet through forms of expression, which enrich the body, mind, and spirit of a man. If not given this form of outlet through transmutation, it will seek outlets through purely physical channels. A river may be dammed, and its water controlled for a time, but its very nature causes it to be ever seeking means of expression. If it is not transmuted into some creative effort it will find a less worthy outlet.”
There is more to it though than just physically using your sexual drive for physical energy. The basic physical concept of using sex transmutation is, as mentioned, controlling ejaculation to increase energy levels. This significantly will affect the chemistry of the body and in particular Testosterone levels. The longer you can refrain from ejaculating, the higher your energy levels will become especially if you are engaging in sexual stimulation in some form on a daily or regular basis.
Napoleon talks about – “1. The men of greatest achievement are men with highly developed sex natures; men who have learned the art of sex transmutation.
2. The men who have accumulated great fortunes and achieved outstanding recognition in literature, art, industry, architecture, and the professions, were motivated by the influence of a woman.“
His statement points out that it is not just having a high sex drive, but knowing how to use it. Sexual desire is the most motivating emotion to man. We think we are rational beings but emotion is stronger than rational thinking. How do you persuade someone? Through emotion, by targeting someone’s heart. By knowing what ‘pulls their strings”. Emotions stimulate powerful chemicals in our body. Biology is pretty hard to override. Chemicals can be mind controlling whether they are natural or synthetic. Our sexual hormones and chemicals can be as powerful as heroine and morphine. Modern scientists have compared the brain tomography of an orgasm to shooting up heroine. We have seen the affects that drugs and heroine have on our youth and society, so that comparison is a startling discovery that our own bodies can produce natural chemicals and powerful and controlling as an illicit illegal street drug responsible for ruining lives and increasing crime rates.
So the bottom line is, if we don’t control our sexual hormones, then our hormones will control us. So how do we control and override nature? Napoleons book focuses on self development and the power of the mind. The key is learning to control our mind which will enable us to gain more control over our emotions and biology.
Napoleon also talks about the power of the subconscious mind and auto suggestion. These are important ingredients to mix with the emotion of sex to produce powerful results.
A high sex drive needs an outlet. Know what your passion is so that you can focus all your powerful sexual energy into productivity.
How to Harness Sexual Energy
I think Jaiya wrote this wonderfully
Sex Transmutation and Manifestation
My partner Jon recently got me the book Think and Grow Rich. Jon went through the book and highlighted any text that talked about my particular area of expertise (you know, starts with s and ends with x- SEX. According to the author, Napoleon Hill, this powerful energy can help you to manifest your greatest desires. Could sex actually help you create more abundance in your life? Could the thing that we have been told is incredibly taboo actually be the true secret to manifesting your dreams?
I’ve discovered that for me this has been true, but I want to challenge myself to something big, a frontier for me to surrender into. I invite you to try this.
STEP ONE: ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT
Sometimes when you ask for something big in the world you really have to strip away old shit and release big fears in order to discipline your mind so that you can create what you are asking for. Recently I decided that I wanted to create the feeling of massive amounts of wealth, financial freedom and security. I notice how I instantly feel the need to erase that last sentence as I type. Why? Because in declaring this desire shame comes up for me. Shame that people might judge me as only wanting money. Shame that I haven’t gotten there. I strive to help others release shame around sex. Here I see shame in another area of my life. I’ve released sexual shame, but without releasing shame around abundance, wealth and money. And I have to let go of the fears and the old stuff I’ve come to believe… so I type this here, for everyone to see! I am no longer ashamed! I am free from this shame of desiring to create such abundance for myself, just like I am free from the shame I created in regards to my sexuality. I am asking for what I want.
STEP TWO: DISCIPLINE YOUR THOUGHTS
I highly recommend picking up every book that you can get about how you change your thoughts to change your current reality. I’m talking about something deeper than just positive thinking. I’m talking about creating new pathways of thought and emotion by making the conscious choice to think differently. Stop focusing on what is and invite in feelings to abundance, love, health, whatever it is that you so desire. When you change your thought you change you current state. When you change your state transformation can happen. All it takes is an instant. A choice.
STEP THREE: MASTER SEX TRANSMUTATION
There are so many books out there on the subject of THE LAW OF ATTRACTION, from The Secret to Ask and It Is Given and so on. But very few, with the exception of Think and Grow Rich actually talk about Sex as a powerful means to manifest your dreams. I believe that this is the missing key. Napoleon Hill says that Sex Transmutation is the number one way to stimulate the mind to awaken creative genius. What does that mean? It simply means that you can take sexual energy, desire and attraction and move it through you. I was taught how to do this at a very young age and I was able to manifest and unbelievable life through these techniques. (I’m sitting by the ocean right now, swam with dolphins earlier today, have the best job ever with multiple books and DVDs, I have great love in my life I could go on!) How do you transmute sexual energy/sensation? My favorite tool is breath. I like to use breath and visualization to draw the energy through my body and up into my brain. This lights my brain on fire! I’m going to use this powerful sexual energy to help awaken my brain to new creative ideas and vibrations that will shift the level of wealth that I have in my life.
STEP FOUR: RELAX and RECEIVE
In order to have a deep, expanded orgasm you must fully relax and surrender into the pleasure. Can you just let go? Stop trying to climb uphill or swim upstream. Can you just float on the river and let it take you? You have to allow that which you are manifesting to actually come to you.
How do I put all of this together?
First I had to really define what it was that I desired and to pick one thing to really focus on. I choose financial freedom and security. Then I began to visualize that coming into my life. I began to turn my thoughts there for as long as I could and to intensify those thoughts with emotion and intense desire. Then comes the arousal. I build my sexual energy and let it rise higher and higher and just before orgasm I will use breath to move the sexual energy into my brain. I go back to focusing on my desire. I build the sexual energy again. I transmute the energy into my brain. I keep doing this for a number of rounds before rolling over into an orgasm, which I pull up into my brain as well. Then I surrender. I let go and just relax knowing that my desire is coming to me. I don’t know how or when and that is not important.
You are going to see more about this from me as I continue to play with these ideas and manifest some magnificent, extraordinary things into my life!
Also more here: http://www.calmdownmind.com/channel-your-sexual-energy/
Also on the topic of Sex, Twin Flames or soul mates, will find that equilibrium within the next three years, and then those who volunteered will remember and act upon the opening of energy centres, which only they can do, through their union. When these two merge in sexual union, tremendous energy forces are released, and when done in a certain milieu (which is too potent for me to reveal here) they can literally light up the world’s energy centres and reconnect these to the Ancient Cosmic Ones….
So Sexual energy is a very powerful force for healing as it awakens god source energy onto the planet. Why do you think there’s so much sexual repression in religion? because it blocks the Energy flow of Creativity!
Long one but it was fun. I’m actually thinking about checking out this book now…I hope this helps. 🙂
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