Stressing over physical features and looks

hey. what type of advice do u have for someone who is stressing over there physical features and are unhappy with their looks. im 20 years old and have a receeding hairline and am balding. its really having a negative effect on me… 

As i wrote before the most important thing you can do for yourself is to love yourself with all your faults. Accept the fact that NO ONE is perfect and to be envious of another human being whether they be celebrity, supermodel, musician or even a close good looking friend is to limit yourself from your own internal reality that is YOU.
No one is good at everything we all have our own strengths and our own weaknesses but  that’s what makes us special, if everyone were the same wouldn’t life get dreadfully boring? see when i was young i had horribly frizzy hair naturally curly, glasses, braces and i absolutely hated it, i tried everything to fix this, i bought straighteners, i had to get contacts as soon as i was old enough and well my braces just kinda sucked and there was nothing i could do lol but you see i tried to fit in, i tried to be normal, all the girls in my school had straight hair and i was envious of them, we ALL do this. We look to others trying to be them, we create idols and worship them, we do this with celebrities, we do this with best friends, we do this with classmates and workmates instead of realizing we live our own story.  you have to accept yourself for who you are. I remember one time I dyed my hair blonde so this guy would like me, because he said i would look good as a blonde. See we’ve ALL done it. he turned out to be such a jerk too but you see I was trying to be someone i’m not, i changed myself for him and honestly i was in a very miserable time of my life, that gave me some immense growth.  now i’m with someone who loves me for who i am and i couldn’t be happier 🙂 
but you see my point here is you can keep trying to change yourself to fit into society, buy a wig to make yourself feel better or try numerous hair care products to fix this or you can just say FUCK it. I am me and i just have to accept that and love myself for who i am with all my faults, with my receeding hairline, with my balding nature, with all my blemishes, with all my curves, with my crooked teeth, etc. 
You know buddha was a kickass bald guy who has some of the best spiritual practices and wisdom. iI t’s actually been said that when you shave your hair you’ll feel the energy even tingling all the way up your skull. It helps the crown chakra. There’s a lot of cool bald guys out there, what is so special about hair anyway? It’s just a external thing, what matters is what’s inside anyway. 
  1. Love yourself: The most important thing EVER and i say this from the bottom of my heart.  love yourself with all your faults, all your judgments, all your fears, all your weaknesses, all your strengths, love your curves, love your body, Take gratitude for who you are and that you are unique in a very complex world
I hope this helps you

Much love and healing light <3

 Ash
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Spiritual Coach & Teacher at The Awakened State
Ashley is the founder of The Awakened State, where she helps others understand the process of Kundalini Awakening through tools, exercises & personal experience. Her mission is to guide others to discover their unlimited potential and how we can move beyond our fears to create New Empowered Paradigms. She teaches others to Dismantle Resistance,Live Beyond Fear and Start Awakening Their Inner Creator. When she’s not blogging,she’s netflixing with her man or playing with her two crazy little ones.
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