What do you do, when you’re hurt about love? How can I be free of that hurt? I love ever so deeply, and I find it so hard to unlove.. I just refuse to stop loving this person. But, I must move forward. I guess my ego is continuing to hold on. Any advice? Thanks, my dear, dear friend.
Love is tricky but like all things everything is a reflection of the other. Our heart chakra is what fuels love into being and what is projected back from the inside is what you will see on the outside. This is very much why i stress loving yourself and self-love are a number one priority when it comes to ascension.
This doesn’t mean you have to stop loving that person, love is different it’s a multifaceted shade of many colors. the love i have for my boyfriend is quite different than the love i have for a friend or a family member or even a distant friend i never talk to anymore but that doesn’t mean that it isn’t love all the same. You can still love someone whether or not they are in your life right now or not. For love resides in the heart, we are all connected, whether near or far they will always remain inside your heart.
When i was hurt from love i went back to my old teenage ways of self abuse and i realized throughout that time that the only thing i was really doing was hurting myself in the end. I had to forgive, deeply and truthly honest to not only myself but the other people throughout my life who have caused that pain. i realized that my lack of love of myself became a catalyst for my own awakening, love is the most powerful force in the universe.
So you have to ask yourself what are you really hurt by and how can you let go of these thoughts that no longer serve you. This is not about the person themselves persay but about your thoughts of the relationship in general. Forgiveness will always set you free. Ego and love do not go together so don’t think that love is a captive of ego because it’s not. All this pain is illusion, what thoughts are projected on you that are causing this hurt? You have to let go of the past, you can always love this person, a part of you probably always will but you have to accept that with yourself and let go of the hurt from your past.
Rose Quartz is a good friend to have if you’re suffering from a broken heart or Jade is also really good.
But you want your heart truly to heal from these past wounds so you can open up your heart chakra. Your heart chakra is the bridge piece connecting the spiritual world to the material world. Feel these wounds, find a release and let go of everything that doesn’t serve you anymore. you can do this, be strong stronger than ever <3
much love and healing light <3